6 Secrets to Be the Nice Guy Women Want

6 Secrets to Be the Nice Guy Women Want

Sure you're nice - most people are.  So what?

This quality is one that reflects your feeling 

that you're a man worth knowing and you deserve 

women's attention.  But do you really believe 

that women pay attention to what you think you 

deserve?

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Sure you're nice - most people are.  So what?

This quality is one that reflects your feeling 

that you're a man worth knowing and you deserve 

women's attention.  But do you really believe 

that women pay attention to what you think you 

deserve?

Being nice is not enough. Okay, fine, you're nice,

 but you also need to be interesting.

Unfortunately, "nice guy" equates to wimp/dweeb 

in too many people's minds. 

Believe me: you don't have to be a jerk to 

attract women!  

As a matter of fact, women did not like jerks or 

aggressive men. They are attracted by challenging,

 interesting guys. That's all.  You can be 

interesting, challenging and still a nice man. Be 

yourself but keep in mind these significant 

things that can make the difference between a 

regular nice guy and a successful one:

1. Women LOVE a man who is a CHALLENGE... the 

quickest and easiest way I've ever heard to let a 

woman know that YOU are the guy she should be 

pursuing is to let women know you are successful 

with women.  Be a nice guy, but one that is 

desirable. :) 

2. The MOST EFFECTIVE way to approach a woman and 

spark her attraction for you is giving her a 

COMPLIMENT on her looks. This can be suicidal if 

done wrong... but just find something at her what 

you really think is special, different about her. 

You give attention, and you will get attention in 

return!

3. Not being aggressive doesn't mean that you 

have to wait for madam perfection to drop into 

your lap (which you as a "nice guy" deserve by 

definition, of course). You have to take some 

initiative. BE SELF-CONFIDENT (but not really 

cocky) and show some honest interest in something 

about a woman.

4. The best selling genre of books in the world 

is romance novels... because women LOVE romance.  

So don't talk about sport for God seek!  If you 

are not the type of man that reads poetry or is 

able to talk about moon or about the smell of 

burned tree leafs, don't do it. You'll look 

unnatural. But taking your date in a romantic 

place, offering her a nice flower, enjoying some 

good music or even touching her hand in a 

delicate way is very romantic.

5. And don't talk only about you. You want her to 

listen to you? Then first listen carefully to her 

when she needs to be heard. The most effective 

way to be interesting is asking questions and  

listens. Only try and you'll see. :)

Keep in mind that often (not always, but very 

often) when a woman tells you about a problem she'

s having, she's not looking to you for the 

solution.  What?  That doesn't make sense? What 

she's often looking for is comfort and 

reassurance and knowing that YOU'RE THERE.

6. One of the most important things in dating is 

to approach women that are interested in dating 

and women that seem to be interested in you. Don'

t try to sell candies to someone that is looking 

for peanuts and don't waste your time with women 

that are still affected by their ex long term 

relationships. You don't want to be just a 

shoulder to cry?

You only live once, so live your life well!